why you should wait to get married
In the words of from his book Modern Romance: It s not about finding someone decent to start a family with. It s about finding the perfect person whom you truly, deeply love We want something that s very passionate, or boiling, from the get-go. In the past, people weren t looking for something boiling: they just needed some water. Once they found it and committed to a life together, they did their best to heat things up. Now, if things aren t boiling, committing to marriage seems premature. Finding that perfect person takes time!
is in full swing as brides-to-be get ready for their rustic fairytale themed wedding and you get ready to spend hundreds on a look you can properly blackout at the open bar in, the thought crosses your mind: should I get married soon? As an independent betch who never settles, you and your closest besties have always laughed about getting married.
Like, you know itвs going to happen eventually but just like the idea of our hair growing white when weвre old, you just canвt see it happening until youвre already Dame Judi Denched. If youвre in a relationship in your twenties, chances are that marriage has crossed your mind at least once. But hereвs why you should wait before jumping into marriage. Other than, of course, the obvious fact that youвre young and at your peak. These days, married people have gotten really unoriginal. В You can literally swap out your friendsв faces in every engagement photo and Facebook announcement, because thatвs all everyone is doing в following a pre-written path. Like going to prom or graduating from college, getting married is just another milestone we do to fit in. Remember high school dance pics where everyone has the same backdrop and pose?
Thatвs what all the Facebook engagement photos look like. В And yet youвre supposed to think that marriage is special. В Sorry, no. В But as over it as we betches are, we love the idea of love, simply because it feels fucking good to be in love. And weвre all about that pleasure principle. So if youвre into love but not into being a basic bitch, you can still get married, but just do it later. В Because who cares? The longer youвre in love before you get married, the cooler your marriage will probably be. Kind of like the longer you work out through the summer, the better your Halloween body will be. В Itвs just logic. The cool thing about marriage is that itвs supposed to be forever. Forever is a fucking long time, and if youвre already in a relationship, then the longer you wait to get married, the less you have to worry about it not working out.
Because letвs face it, we go into every relationship with the foresight that most things donвt work out. But for the same reason we take that sixth or seventh shot of vodka even though we know weвll likely be hungover AF the next day, we get into relationships. The reason is because itвs fun and itвs what we want to do. Also weвre probably already drunk in both those situations so why the fuck not. Like a fine wine, marriage is one of those things that gets better the longer you wait. And spoiler alert betches, youвre not going to die alone. Because look at you. So donвt rush it and enjoy yourself, because once youвre married you have to worry about divorce and babies. Plus, weddings are much more fun when you can still catch a bouquet.
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