why do women want what they can t have
Women find a man more attractive once they learn he has a wife or girlfriend, a study suggests. They think he is more likely to be kind and faithful and, therefore, a good dad, psychologists believe. Having a partner gives men an attractiveness boost, they say. But women may just be swayed by the opinions of others Б and are as likely to up their rating of artworks which others like. The findings come from an experiment testing the notion of mate-choice copying, which is seen in female birds and fish. It can offer an evolutionary advantage by boosting their chances of finding a good sexual partner. Researchers asked 49 female volunteers to rate menБs faces, menБs hands and a piece of art.
But when they were shown othersБ ratings and asked again, they moved 13 percent closer to the average facial score and 14 percent closer to the average art rating. Research leader Kate Cross, from the University of St. Andrews in Scotland, said: БWomen appear to copy the mate preferences of other women, but this might simply be because humans have a general tendency to be influenced by the opinions of others. Б
When I left college I was an AFC (average frustrated chump). I took a year off and spent a lot of time working out my mistakes and then joined university with the knowledge of what I then called "the game. " The game was a very small part of basic Don Juaning, just how to use INDIFFERENCE to get a girl.
A good friend of mine had a brother who was 17 at the time. And he was NUTS over this one girl. In one year, he had asked her out 8 times. Each time she had said no, and he kept coming back for more. She knew him in a group, they were good 'friends' and because he was so persistent he would 'bump into' her loads. They got on well but there was nothing from her to him. I sat him down, and despite not knowing much, explained 'the game'. "Women only want what they can't get.
You need to start ignoring her. "Be around her, in her presence, but don't give her any special attention whatsoever. Don't be rude, god no, but just let her know that there are things to do besides hang around her. "At parties, for example, walk up, grinning like an idiot, have an excellent and humorous conversation for one minute (instead of the 30 mins she's used to) and then bounce off and have fun with you friends (ideally where she can see you). "If she's with a few friends, make a point of walking up to them and having a great conversation with her best friend, not her, like she's used to, and then walk away.
You are social, you talk to everyone. "Soon she starts missing the chats you had, but when she comes to find you, talk for a minute, really bouncy, really pleasant, and then tell her you need to go and find someone. But be SOOOO polite when you do. No rudeness. " Anyway, I talked to him for 10 minutes, and found out a month later that after she started following him, and saying that they didn't spend enough time together anymore, he casually asked her out and she accepted. Incidentally, this 'AFC' dumped her for a hotter girl 2 months later. Now that's a happy ending.
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