why do u love him so much

A couple of weeks ago, it was my boyfriends birthday. I couldn't think of anything to write in his birthday card other than the usual "I love you," so I thought I'd tell him exactly how much I love him. I didn't intend to carry on for a hundred different points, but I got to ninety without realising and decided to go on and do 100 to make it more of a round number. He loved it and thought it was a really sweet thing to do. Of course, then he ruined the mood by joking that he wouldn't be able to think of that many for me. If you are like my beloved boyfriend and can't think of enough reasons, feel free to take some inspiration from this list or steal a couple of my points. Love happens at such a deep level beyond logic or reasons that it can be tough to figure out exactly why you love a person. For this article, I decided to divide my list into themes to make it easier for other people to think up their own reasons.


The themes are all kind of reasons in themselves. They each complete the sentence: "I love. "
Who You Are: What do you like about your boyfriend's personality? His passions, his looks, the things he does outside of your relationship? Our Connection: Do you and your boyfriend have a special connection? What are your songs? What reminds you of him? How You Make Me Feel: How do you feel when you're with your boyfriend? Let him know! How You Support Me: Having a supportive partner can make all the different in the world. Let your boyfriend know how much you appreciate his support. When We're Alone: Feel free to be as sexy and scandalous as you like. What does he do when you're alone together that really works for you? When You're Silly: Sometimes the silliest, most mundane things about a person are what we love the most.


Do you appreciate his sense of humor? Maybe you secretly love it even when he annoys you. All the Little Things: These are the little moments of daily life that make you stop and realize how much you love this person. An answer, or rather supplement, to Brianna Wiest s article, : 1. It doesn t matter what time it is but when he tells you he wants to see you, you ll be at his doorstep in a heartbeat, no matter how you look like. 2. You re willing to lose sleep just to talk to him. You re willing to spend your precious time to talk to him. 3. In every relationship, there s one party who always loves and gives more. It doesn t matter if it s you. 4. There s no need for compromise, you conform. There s no need to meet halfway, because you ve already made the whole trip. 5.


You drunk text him. You drunk call him. It doesn t matter. It s him you think about when you re drunk. 6. You respect his freedom. If he wants to be alone, you ll let him be. If he wants to explore his options, you ll let him be. And you wait tirelessly on him. 7. You can t stay mad at him for too long. And you can t stand him being mad at you. You fold. 8. You go to places where he always goes, not to see him but to feel his presence. You re happy with that. 9. You still want to be with him even if he has broken your heart into tiny little pieces. 10. You don t care about his past. You accept it wholeheartedly. 11. You re willing to give up and change your career if he wants you to, even if you re more than halfway to making it. 12. You re in for the long haul. You know there will be detours, road bumps, misread signs but you ll still be holding on.


You understand that one time or another, you ll feel that you re feelings are not as strong as it once was but you ll strive to feel it again because there s no one else you d rather be with even through rough patches, and because love is a commitment, a promise. 13. You love him with all his idiosyncrasies, his weirdness, all his imperfections. Even if he takes a bath three times a day, even if he can t play poker no matter how many times he s been taught, even if he has OCD, even when he s loves basketball more than you, and all those little irritating things that you ve come to love. 14. When he tells you there s no more chance of you two getting back together, you ll still pray that he ll change his mind. And you ll keep saying the same prayer as the years pass by.

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